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31 Oct
Dracula. The Vampire. The old man who grows younger and gains more health and glow as he sucks in more blood from young women. Vampire stories are very popular today. Great vampire stories lead the bestsellers, including the Twilight Saga by the modern-day great Stefanie Meyer.
Dracula is a name that has sent many a shiver across the spines of millions of readers till date. From the old castle at Transylvania where the Counts of the Dracula family ruled for ages, the Un-Dead travels all the way to Britain - London - to quench his blood-thirst. Here, he leads Lucy, a nineteen-year old girl, to death - or rather, to an Un-dead like Draula himself - and also attacks Lucy’s friend Mina. Mina’s husband Jonathan Harker, Lucy’s fiance Arthur Holmwood (Lord Godalming), Dr John Seward and Quincey Morris join Dr Abraham Van Helsing to bring the demonic force of Dracula to an end after a month-long chase over nearly half of Europe. And Morris dies a gallant death before they all pray for peace - “Amen”.
Written as an agglomeration of multiple sources such as different diaries, narrations, telegrams, letters, phonograph cylinders and newspapers, the novel offers a rather unique flavor of presentation. Add the exploration of Victorian women, culture and even romance to some extent, one can gather the notion of co-existence of modernism and gender roles. Yet other literary critics have viewed the novel as one with sexual implications where Dracula attacks and even seduces innocent women and end up changing their sexual characters altogether (women such as Lucy in the novel).
In a nutshell, Dracula is the forerunner of many a vampire story today. To really enjoy and appreciate all the vampire stories, one should make a definite note to read the great story of the original vampire - Dracula.
One can find the original full-text book of Dracula in the Bram Stoker page of the library hosted by http://www.webliterature.net
31 Oct
Dani Johnson was surrounded by drug addicted parents growing up and a stepdad that told her she was trash. Dani was able survive through it all because she knew Jesus loved her and looked forward to her Sunday School every week. However when faced with a teenage pregnancy at the age of 17, and forced to give her baby up for adoption, she faced rejection, ridicule and lies from the people she most loved. She turned away from her faith seeking acceptance from new age beliefs and materialism.
Dani became successful in business by the time she was 19, however, her con-artist husband took her for every penny she had. This was the lowest point in her life, but it was also at this time Dani heard God’s voice again, urging her to rise past her circumstances and move forward.
Homeless and living out of her car with just $2.03 to her name, Dani Johnson utilized a phone booth and a prayer to start her business. She had no sales brochures, business cards, product, support systems, just a desire to get out of the hole she was in. Because of her desire and commitment, she made her first million just 24 months later.
Today Dani Johnson is a national trainer for all entrepreneurs, both home based business owners as well as those who own brick and mortar companies. She mentors stay at home moms and dads to doctors and lawyers to CEO’s of large corporations. Her reach is wide spread but her message is the same.
Dani Johnson is recognized for her “tell it like it is” coaching and uses several platforms to spread her message. Dani is an author, speaker, trainer, and most recently, has been a guest on TBN (Trinity Broadcasting Network), a Christian TV station. She’s also added to her portfolio, expert insight on living debt free and how to raise up children to become all they can be. Dani continues to impact the lives of millions of people seeking a change.
Coaching with Dani Johnson is no walk in the park but the trade off is becoming a 6 and 7 figure earner. Before coaching with Dani, one may want to take a good look in the mirror and ask themself if they’re ready to face the music and become that which she says is necessary in order to achieve success.
Dani Johnson is authentically herself. She’s comfortable and straight forward about the ugly details and struggles she had to endure as a girl and young woman to have success and become who she is today. So guess what? She doesn’t accept excuses from anyone else. She knows what it takes and she will make one face the truth about their self starting with their belief system. What is it that they believe about their self?
Dani’s coaching is Bible based. She’ll be the first to tell you that God created you with all the parts you need to succeed and use any two year old as proof. Common characteristics at that age look like this: When they trip and fall down or fall off of a wall, a swing, a bike, whatever, they get up fast and brush themselves off only to keep going without looking back. They don’t take “no” for an answer and persistency usually wins. They forgive, they have no prejudices, they don’t know how to hold grudges. They believe they can be superman when they grow up and nobody can convince them otherwise. They are fearless, full of adventure and risk takers.
So what the heck happened now that they are grown?
They have developed someone elses belief system about themselves. Their parents, teachers, friends, people throughout their life have put limitations and doubts into their upbringing and as a result, grown-ups for the most part have lost all characteristics of their two year old mindset. The one that says I can succeed and be anything I want to be.
Most adults today live with tremendous fears of rejection and failure and because they can’t get past it mentally, they live from paycheck to paycheck, endure sleepless nights and debt collectors because they don’t see a way out.
Dani Johnson focuses on the internal self, the mindset, how to build strong business relationships and skillsets like prospecting, closing sales, time management, debt elimination, and so much more. Dani’s the total package in that she deals with all areas of one’s life, from spiritual, to business relationships and skillsets, to balancing family, to getting out of debt and creating wealth.
Dani Johnson offers extensive resources to anyone looking to succeed financially, spiritually and personally. Resources include seminars, CD’s, books and private one on one coaching. An invaluable resource she freely gives to everyone is her audio vault accessible through her website under in her Home Profit Zone section and conducts weekly free live training.
I recommend Dani’s teaching to my business partners and others who are seeking direction in personal and business growth but just know that she’s going to call you out of the closet to face your fears, your belief system and challenge you to get rid of that which holds you prisoner to your own success. She will accept no excuses and has no problem confronting you and calling you on the table about this. If your desire is truly to be a 6 and 7 figure earner, then looking in the mirror is a perfect start.
Everyone has tremendous value to offer to others. Anyone seeking to change their financial situation can do it if they will face their fears head on and make a decision that it’s time to embark on changing from the inside out, learn new skillsets for their business of choice and realize they need to get their own egos out of the way and really care about the dreams of others. When you help enough people get what they want, you will have everything you want. Make your business about fearlessly helping others. It’s a process and a journey and those who begin with the first steps and stay committed are in for life changing experiences they dream about.
Debbie Turner is a retired Realtor and enjoys being a successful online entrepreneur. Debbie believes in multiple streams of income and utilizing personal branding and web 2.0 strategies for marketing. Specifically, Debbie has a home business with Global Resorts Network (travel club memberships) and Genewize (DNA specific nutrition). Debbie enjoys working with others who desire to have a successful home based business and offers coaching and mentoring. You can reach Debbie at 843.270.5611 or at her website http://www.globalresortsblogcentral.com
30 Oct
The heartbreak experienced during a break up can be one of the most intolerable feelings imaginable. This may sound overly dramatic, but it’s a proven fact that losing a relationship creates a similar level of sadness as losing a loved one who dies. The pain can feel unbearable and permanent. How many more sleepless nights can you take? The fact that you’re looking for ‘real love spells I can perform’ is a strong sign that what you really need is solid advice on how to win someone back. If salvaging a relationship is what you really want, then it’s important that you know exactly what to do to win back the one you love… and avoid the usual errors almost everyone makes.
Immediately discontinue all behavior that comes across and needy or desperate. Desperate behavior includes begging/pleading, non-stop phone calls, emails, you know… pretty pathetic stuff. The more you push, the more they will pull away… it’s human nature. completely throwing yourself at your ex turns them off… plus you give up all your self respect and personal power.
Now that you understand basic human nature, work with it… instead of fighting it! Give your ex plenty of space. Stop all contact… phone calls, emails, etc. for at least a few weeks… up to a month or more depending on the situation.
After a while your ex will notice you’re no longer acting desperate.. In most causes your ex will naturally be attracted to you once again. Why? Because just like it’s human nature to pull back if you feel pressed, the opposite is also true… a person tends to be attracted towards someone they think is not completely available.
Be sure to stay busy during this time of no contact by engaging in plenty of activities that you enjoy and are important to you. Get going on some of those goals you’ve been stalling on, work out, start a hobby or whatever… just make sure it’s things that improve your life. Your ex will notice the improvements. Your new independence along with your attitude of detachment will cause your ex to be instinctually pulled toward you. Instead of you needing ‘real love spells I can perform’ and being the one chasing, now you’re both equals… and you can begin to work on the deeper problems that need mending.
What if you try this approach and nothing changes? Can you still win your ex back? Yes… but only if you avoid the common mistakes almost EVERYONE makes. Click here for more free tips on EXACTLY what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms (even if you are the only one trying.) You also have a chance to watch a testimonial video from people that have used these techniques successfully.
29 Oct
A Quest for International Law: UN Version 3.0
Realists tell you it does not exist. That there is no such a thing as International Law. And even if there was, there was no way of enforcing it. Their arguments make a lot of sense. Their logic is pure Realism at its finest :
• There is no International Law.
• Laws are made by the stronger.
• the UN is Useless & can not, should not have a role in resolving conflicts or promoting justice
• Because there are dictators who might sign international treaties we should not have treaties
Realism is great. But Guess what. It did not work. It did not protect the strong. The minute that the strong decided to break the spirit of International Law, which it did not really acknowledge as a concept, the strong became weak, exposed and vulnerable … we all become vulnerable in absence of the law … because the law, JUSTICE, is an insurance policy for all of us …
So. Realism did not quite seem to work.
Hence, comes this notion of Post-Realism. A Search for International Law. A Pursuit of Happiness, not just for the Americans, Europeans or Japanese but for every nation. A Quest for Justice not just for Egyptians, Palestinians & Syrians but for Israelis, Tibetans, Indians, Sri Lankans, Cubans, Russians, Armenians, Ethiopians, etc., … justice for all … justice for everyone. For we have learned that no Nation can be happy alone … while the rest of the world suffers.
Realism talks about what’s possible in terms of our own past experience of how things used to happen.
At one moment of Man’s journey … there were no states … there was no law, there was no electricity or telephones.
When one man, possibly code name Osiris, or Azer, but he really represents the civilizing spirit in every society, had the idea, that Man should not kill another man for food … that a concept of “property” exists … at that precise moment … the concept of LAW was Born:”
And Aser gave his fellow men (probably Egyptians
Laws, taught them how to farm and how to make wine … and taught them how to honor the gods (do good really) .. he took them out of their savagery.
If MAN insisted on being realist all along that journey of civilization … we would never have LAWS or States … or Electricity … or wine …
But luckily, Man has never given up the gift of “Dreaming” … for he was endowed with imagination and vision , the ability to see things … not only as they are … or as they used to be … but as they COULD BE.
This is the power of Vision my friends … we should never lose sight of that … and we should never let anyone tell us that things can’t get better on the grounds that things are indeed dire … for when things are bad … this is the best time when Man can install something better … only when it is bad … that traditionalists and conservatives will accept a new solution which may allow things to be less bad … or simply better …
But most of all, we should never fall victims of Realism at bad times, because when things are bad … Realism really becomes another word for pessimism.
Now, we have to ask ourselves: is this the best Man can do?
International Justice: is it really “No-can-do”?
I am not talking here about Palestine or Israel, I am talking about everything … about Kyoto, the Ozone Layer and global warming … I am talking about kids starving in Africa and conflicts breaking in Georgia. I am talking about it all. Wouldn’t be nice to have something, an international institution, which can actually provide a framework for International Law, including arbitration, litigation and enforcement?
Guess what. Such an institution exists. In fact, version 2.0 of that institution does exist. It is called the United Nations. Version 1.0 (the League of Nations, rest-in-peace) was full of bugs, and because it was so buggy it did not manage to prevent the horrors of World War 2. World Peace “Crashed” and 40 million people died. So in 1945, the warring nations, after the war, developed version 2.0, and sat on its Security Council. And it did manage to prevent War again between the five.
But guess what. It had no room for the weak. It did not listen to the poor. So, the weak decided, to take the Law in its own hand, launching a “Parallel War”, using terror and killing civilians instead of engaging in a formal conventional war for which the weak had no capacity to handle or chance to win.
Isn’t this always the case? When the Law fails to deliver justice, people resort to violence, hire thugs and take the law in their own hands?
So,I say that now, it is time for UN version 3.0
And please, this time, we need the weak to sit on the table with the strong.
The poor with the rich.
This is how we can rid ourselves of this Bad Karma which seems to be haunting us. Catching up with us where we least expect it.
Let us work on UN Version 3.0 and improve our Karma a little. Shall we?
28 Oct
Albert Einstein is to this day considered one of the most brilliant men in history, his theories still seem to hold up to day in the scientific courts. Indeed, many of his own theories that he was skeptical of continue to amaze modern day scientists who are engaged in scientific experiments to get at those truths. Einstein is also one of the most quoted people in history ranking up there with FDR, Winston Churchill, Plato, Jesus, Mohammed, Gandhi, Confucius and Sun Tzu.
The question recently posed at the Online Think Tank was, if Einstein were alive today, what would he think and what would he say? What words of wisdom would he depart on the economic situation, global economy, and modern day physics? If you look at many of his quotes he appears to have already predicted much of what is today, similar to the recently departed Arthur C Clarke predicted our future, which keeps unfolding nicely, right along with his major science fiction works.
Are we chasing Einstein’s dream, Plato’s Utopia and Arthur C. Clark’s science fiction, or did they like Nostradamus simply study their history, watched for repeating patterns and come up with the plausible future based on mankind’s dreams, imagination, and inspiration while factoring in humankind’s flaws, perseverance and ignorance?
What would Einstein have said about this current election process? Would he have said something like; “Politics is no way to run mankind’s affairs” or “Neither Capitalism or Communism is perfect, a hybrid of those and other theories maybe the answer?” Einstein in 2009, wouldn’t it be great to peer once again into that mind?
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28 Oct
Do you want to know how to stop divorce? If things are tough in your marriage, you might be struggling to find some principles you can use to save your marriage. Here are three concepts you can embrace that will help you to save a marriage–even if it seems almost as if divorce is looming around the corner.
Preventing Divorce Is Only One Of Your Goals
Finding a way to stop divorce is only one part of your goal set. It’s a necessary and essential part of a larger picture. You don’t want to simply stay married. You want to have a good marriage. That’s important to remember at all times. If you’re focused solely on avoiding divorce, you might be tempted to take actions that merely allow you to survive, when you should be looking for ways to thrive.
You don’t want to muddle through a bad marriage indefinitely. You want the kind of relationship you really deserve and you should keep that in mind at all times. If you do, you’ll be more likely to take the kind of action that strengthens and improves your marriage.
Action Is Critical To Saving Your Marriage
Saving your marriage is all about action. If you want to figure out how to stop divorce, you need to realize that it all starts with a willingness to take real action. Worrying, fretting and agonizing isn’t going to turn things around. Simply hoping for things to get better isn’t going to fundamentally transform the nature of your partnership. This isn’t a time for wishful thinking, it’s time to take action.
Inaction is probably the number one killer of marriages. Those who save struggling marriages have one thing in common–someone decided to take a stand for love. Someone decided to step forward for the sake of the marriage. Someone decided to get the ball rolling and take the kind of actions that set off a transformative series of events. You need to be that someone in your marriage. You need to take action.
A Smart Plan Is Critical When Saving A Marriage
Taking action is important. Equally important, however, is taking the right action. That might require deviating from your current approach. Let’s be frank, most of us are not relationship experts with years of education, study, reflection and experience. Our ideas and our plans probably aren’t perfectly-honed to save a marriage. The stakes here are very high and it just makes sense to follow a smart plan outlined by a legitimate expert in the field.
If you want to know how to stop divorce, you need to seek the wise counsel of someone who knows their way around troubled marriages. Adopt a smart strategy to guide your actions and you’ll be much better positioned to do what it takes to save your marriage.
Your relationship is not doomed. Even if you’re the only one interested in making things work, you can save your marriage.
By following a smart, professional and proven plan designed to effectively save a marriage, you can make your relationship much stronger and better than it has ever been!
27 Oct
Type the words - is my man cheating - into your Google search box, hit enter and what do you get ? Answer, a whole bunch of online tests that you can take. Tests that once completed and your score out of 10 is given, will either leave you ready to throttle him the minute he walks in the door from work or you will end up even more stressed and confused than you were before you even took the silly test.
In the perfect world where every man is exactly the same, these, Is my man cheating tests, would be number one on Amazons best seller list but right here in the real world they fall way short of even mild amusement.
So why do women flock to these tests in their thousands? Answers, that’s why.
But what kind of answers are they getting? Take this question from the, Is my man cheating test, for example…
Has your husband started working late when he may not have done so for years?
Well hello girls, We are at the start of a major recession, Gas prices have literally gone through the roof, World food prices are higher than they have ever been since records began and the majority of people are really starting to struggle out there.
So what does one do in these situations ? You take on extra work, nearly everyone I know right now is working longer and harder than they ever have. Put simply, it’s just a sign of the times and it is here to stay for a while. But hey, If you are taking the, is my man cheating test, you had better tick that particular box. Just four more ticks to go now and you will have yourself your very own cheater.
But here is my favourite, and yes, Surprise surprise, It is from that same, Is my man cheating test. Check this beauty out…
Has he started taking a new found interest in his appearance? Well men have many reasons for their radical and spontainious bouts of self interest. Chances are that he just accidentally saw himself in the mirror when he got out of the shower yesterday morning and is now planning a comeback that would even make “Rocky” jealous.
It is high time that we stop putting all our men in the same cheating basket.
If you think that your loved one is cheating on you why don’t you actually take action and do something about it. Hard undeniable evidence is something your man cannot argue with but when confronted about his new self interest or why he is working late what do you think he is going to say.
The reason that most of us women don’t go after that kind of evidence is not because we don’t want it. The fact is most of us lack the “private investigator” knowledge, The tricks, Tactics and resources they use to nail cheaters in a day or two. For example, it is actually possible to know exactly where your man is every second of the day without anyone following him. I should know as it is my specialty, and once you have this knowledge you will kick yourself at just how easy it is to get REAL evidence.
So please leave all the Is my man cheating tests to the people out there who are after a “five second fix” to their problem that they are never going to find and obtain some REAL knowledge so that you can get some REAL results. Fact versus fiction should never be a hard choice to make.
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26 Oct
If you’re thinking about getting your ex girlfriend back, it’s only natural to wonder if she still has feelings for you. After all, it would be pointless even trying to get her back if she’s not interested. So is it possible to tell without asking her? You might be pleasantly surprised by what I have to say.
Emotions are very difficult to control and unless you and your ex split for some disastrous reason, there’s every chance that she still has strong feelings for you. She probably won’t admit that because we all have this internal mechanism that takes over in situations like this called “barriers”, and your job now is to work how to lower hers.
So how do you do that? Well this part can be difficult because when you’re in the mix of a relationship break up, the hardest possible thing to do is to put your sensible head and look at the situation from a logical point of view.
But that is exactly what you need to do right now more than anything else. If you’re at the point where you are trying to make contact with her on a regular basis, or turning up where she least expects it in the hope that she’ll throw her arms around you, it has to stop. Nothing will push her further away from you than this kind of behaviour.
Want she wants more than anything from you right now is to see that you have control of your emotions and you are prepared to give her a bit of space to evaluate her true feelings. Any kind of extreme behaviour will only cloud her feelings further, maybe to the point of shutting you right out of her life. Give her a bit of room and the “barriers” will drop, allowing you to carefully plot your way back into her heart.
I once needed advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back and quickly realised that I was using the wrong approach entirely.
You can discover more about how I turned my situation around and got my ex back in my arms again here, and I’ll also tell you more about the very first thing you must do when you break up.
25 Oct
Many men think that in order to attract a woman you need to listen to her and share a bit about yourself as well. Yet the truth of the matter is what she has to say and what she wants to know mean absolutely nothing.
When a man introduces himself to a woman his #1 priority should be to create a certain level of comfort in her. The great thing about making a woman comfortable is it usually means that you yourself are comfortable as well.
Now, when I say comfortable I mean relaxed and at the same time no more special than anyone else.
Once you have created that level of comfort it is important that you move on to creating attraction in her both with your words and touch.
What happens a lot of times is that men either don’t know how to create attraction in women and simply pick an arbitrary moment in the comfort stage to move in for the kiss or they know how to create attraction in women but for whatever reason choose to skip the entire comfort building process. Which leads women to find them very rude and questioning there motives.
The easiest way to create attraction in a woman is by asking her questions that cause her to remember a time when she felt attraction towards someone. Ironically another way that you will have created attraction in her is by not answering her questions and making her answer your questions instead.
When it comes to talking to attract women you have two choices. You can just talk to be talking and answering her meaningless questions that lead down the path to nowhere, or you can create comfort and attraction in a woman with your stories and question that will lead her to feel attraction towards you.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and more. If you would like more information on how to attract, seduce and meet women sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men today.
25 Oct
Are most long married couples unhappy with their relationship? This is the question that has being bugging me for a while. As a Feng Shui consultant, I come across many clients with less than happy marriages. Many times my clients will ask me for a ’secret’ cure or recommendation that would miraculously improve their relationship with their spouse.
So, I asked a few of my married friends for their opinion. I chose this select group because they are older - over fifty years old - and have been married for many years. Their answer was quite shocking- to me. Based on their personal experience and those of their friends, they think that 90% of married couples are, in one way or another, unhappy with their relationships.
Granted that they do not live happily ever after, as in the fairy tales, this is still quite sad - if it is indeed true.
Is there a cure? Maybe there is.
In many olden societies, such as the Chinese, where arranged marriages are commonplace, it is a practice to check the horoscope (Ba Zi) of the intended couple for compatibility, before they are allowed to tie the knot.
Does this always work? It increases the chance but it does not work all the time. However through years of observation, they found out that if you combine it with some conditions, you can increase the chances of having a happy and lasting marriage.
While this wisdom is for everyone, it is even more critical for those with a history of unsuccessful marriages or relationships, to take note.
Here are some of the conditions.
In the old days, the husband must always be older than the wife. This is like a tradition. It cannot and should not be broken. However the ancients also observed that for those with unsuccessful marriages or relationships, breaking the tradition - i.e. having an older wife - can strangely be the answer. To the ancient Chinese, the wife is considered older even if she is a day older than the husband. However for better results, a wider age gap is preferred.
The other option for a more successful relationship is for the husband to be much older than the wife. To the ancient Chinese, much older means at least 8 years apart. In practice, 10 or 15 years older is perfectly acceptable or desired.
It would also increase the chances if there is a big disparity in the social and economic standard between the husband and the wife. For example the husband is a highly educated CEO of a large corporation while the wife is a much lesser educated person from a poor family. Can it be the other way around? It is unlikely in the old days because the husband is always the breadwinner. However in this modern times, where many women out-earn their husbands, why not?
This next condition only applies to the woman - at least in the old days. If she cannot be a successful first wife, it does not mean that she cannot be successful being the second or third one. So, being the other women can be an option that leads to success! I am not sure about being the other man though!
What if none of the above works?
The final option is to have a spouse that is of a different race or from a different culture. For example, an Indian and a Chinese or between two Chinese brought up in different places. For example, one brought up in China and in the other in the United States.
These are wisdoms that our forefathers have passed down to us. So, and especially, if you are relationship challenged, give it a try. There is nothing to lose!
Henry Fong Feng Shui Consultant