Divorce is much like a huge catastrophic disaster. The huge explosion caused by years of scorn, negative tension, and a generally unfulfilling relationship have turned what used to be a healthy, smooth-running marriage, built on a solid foundation  into bits shards of emotional dissipation, regret, remorse, and utter depression. Once the divorce proceedings have been finalized, the process of picking up the pieces and building something else begins. 

As with any other mess, you must put first things first. This means tying up all the loose ends that come with a divorce after it is finalized. Many people simply don’t take the time to care for these things that can ultimately hurt them. 

The first thing to do is take care of family financial documents. This means that all the data that you can find regarding the financial history of the marriage must be exchanged. The idea here is that you want to check for completeness. The collection of the data will reveal a financial story that describes the nature of the marriage. Be sure to include at least six years of income tax returns, investment portfolios, insurance policies, property taxes, and pay stubs. Having these documents readily available makes it much easier to establish new financial arrangements, especially when it comes to applying for a loan, or getting a new mortgage.

The next thing to do is to clean house. This means take care of the straggling ties that still legally illustrate a connection between you and that other individual. These include tasks like closing or splitting joint accounts, while also determining how much money goes to each party. An income withholdings statement must be prepared in order to take care of the child support issues. If there is a mortgage shared between the two of you, then you must refinance the home in order to make sure that the other individuals name is no longer on the loan. You may also want to change the beneficiaries on the life insurance.

After that it is time to take care of both the children and yourself.   This means working out who will take care of the health insurance policy on the children and also how they will be claimed on tax reports. Once that is taking care of, you must start making personal and financial goals for your future alone. And while this might hurt, it is the best thing that you can do for yourself. 

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Joseph Devine